sad...helpless...

My friend... Meg....her mom died yesterday...I am sad for her....and her siblings...they had lost their dad several years ago... and now their mom is gone... and even though I just lost my mom... I have no idea what to say/do to help...

Services are this weekend... and I am scared about attending the funeral... knowing that I will be thinking of my mom while I listen to everything....and don't want to lose it when I need to be there for my friend...

Ugh.