Reasons for this?

There is so much going on... so much that impacts me but is not mine to share...

I will say that Cancer sucks... as does the universe...

For those people who believe in 'God's plan'... or that 'Everything happens for a reason'... explain this to me...

A 38 year old woman with stage IV breast cancer learns that her mother has been diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer...and that means her father, a stroke victim, has to be in a nursing home because he requires her care...

Please... explain this... and look me in the eye... or better yet look my friend in her eyes... and tell her there are reasons for this...